The day we went to see her: December 2009 |
The day we brought her home. January 1, 2010. |
I write a lot about the issues we have, but I really should give us both a lot more credit. Seven years ago I brought home a closed off rag doll and now I have a very opinionated, athletic machine. She went from not moving one single inch under saddle to bolting madly to spinning and kicking to moving out on the trail in a side pull solo.
I never imagined that we would complete a 100 mile ride, finish Ride and Tie Championships or begin dressage lessons.
And what about me?
Seven years ago I was afraid to ride her out of the indoor. I had never hooked up a trailer on my own. Never self loaded a horse. Never driven a trailer. I had never rode out on a trail solo, let alone at anything more than a walk. I hadn't made any big horse related dreams beyond not dying in the saddle.
And now -
Well, now I barely recognize myself. I canter and gallop on trail alone. I head to the barn at the butt crack of dawn to pull my horse out of her dark pasture, load her up and drive 6 hours away to camp alone without knowing a single sole and complete a 50 mile ride. I back my trailer into the tiniest spot without fear of breaking everything.
I'd say lets bring on the next 7 years!
i love looking back and seeing those big transformations over time!! you and Gem have really built quite the partnership!
ReplyDeleteWe have come a long way thats for sure
DeleteYou and Gem were meant to be <3 I'm really encouraged by your progress too because I am at the whole "never hooked up a trailer on my own/never self loaded a horse/never driven a trailer" part right now haha
ReplyDeleteI should tell the story of the first time I hooked it up by myself. Cliff notes version: after an hour of trying and then calling the hubby in tears, he came to help and I found out I had done it right the every first time but thought it was wrong.
DeleteWow, both of you are now my heroes. :)
ReplyDeleteAwe....thanks :)
DeleteWhat a story.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing what we can accomplish if we follow our dreams. A year ago, I was recovering from breaking my leg, dreaming of the moment I could get back in the saddle. 3 months ago, I was at the never hooked up/driven a trailer and now here I am. My dad would say it's persistence and resilience (he's a psychology professor so I guess he knows what he's talking about)
Persistence and resilience is a great way to sum it up. I typically just cll it being thick headed and stubborn :)
DeletePerspective is an amazing thing! She really was a sad looking horse when you got her. As you know, I think she's GORGEOUS now. Your blog doesn't show her off either. I knew she was a nice horse, but when I met her, I did a double take. You have so much to be proud of, and I love this post!
ReplyDeleteThank you Dom, it means a lot coming from you!! I am probably the worst picture taker on the internet. I'm too impatient with it.
DeleteThat's such an amazing turn-around!
ReplyDeleteIts been a good 7 years :)
DeleteIts been a good 7 years :)
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